How do you do what you want to do with making everyone around you hate you?

I have one question I have been pondering and wondering about for quit some time.   How do you live the life you want to live without everyone in your life hating you?   I realize most people are unable to live their dreams because most of the time dreams are just that dreams.   But I think for anyone to constanly chase after money that will probably make them feel shallow.   Because there are a lot of people families that are financially secure but they are very unhappy at the exact same time.   I think because most people are honestly just trying to get by they are trying to keep what they have earned.   Because most never reach their full potential in life.   Especially now there are so many businesses that it is their goal to distory your life so they can make you go away.   I feel that most people have way way too much time on their hands.   I think most people that truly follow their dreams they did not take no for an answer because they have nothing else going.   They truly pay a price for that they sacrifice time with their families ect.   But to reach their full potential and do that good work they must take that chance.   The thing is most of the time you can only see bites and pieces of what God’s plan is for you.   But how do you accomplish this without  trying to please everyone around you or not having everyone around you not like you?   If we lose our “sense of humor we are not going to make it as people.   We are just going to walk around feeling guilty angry envious depressed and anxious.   Now not everyone will agree on what is funny and what is not but most of the time great humor is found in tension.   Most of the comdey that is mainstream I am not a fan but I do not want to take that away from those who enjoy it.   We have a huge issue in this country with tattling because everyone has access to their phones which I think is one of the worst things to happen in human history anyone can upload anything and present it anyway they wish.   I think the left’s goal is to get rid of any entertainment that they find objectionable.   I used to believe that the conservates christans were the ones who went after any entertainment that could influence their children in a negative way which I against as well.   Now it is the left if you play their game they will always have something that they want to distory that  it is so confuession because many think that if they go in  lock step with the left they will be okay but they never be satisfied until all entertainment that the left finds unexcitable gone.   This is not a generationally belief of why can it be like it was this has to do with freedom and the kind of country we want to leave the next generations.   Now with everything gone or taken down we all will have no escapes or release which is the purpose  of entertainment an escape if that is deprived from us God help us all!