The probelm with "appolizing"

The problem with apologizing that once anyone does it they essentially have power over you but once you do not give them what they want they will not have that power they wish to have.   The word progressive means now not to evolve and grow but to constanly look through a prism of the past and to find offense anywhere it can be found.   The left has this unbelievable high standard to which they themselves cannot live up.   So the left has a different set of rules but anyone else breaks any of those changing rules that person must be distory at any cost.   I think much of this is out of boredom and group think.   People are joining groups to find meaning.   They are not finding any in religion or something that is greater than they are so they must become social justice warriors.   “SJWS”   There are faiths that teach social justice but what I think it will never end.   If the end game is to give people of a certain race something without earning it that will distory that person.   If they are unable to work or to provide for themselves that is different.   I need to make that distinction because there are those who are unable to provide for themselves to look after themselves.   They are either born with conditions that limit them either psychal limitations or mental.   Those are the ones who society should have compassion because they will have to work harder and burn more engery then those who are able bodied.   If anyone believes they can find meaning with #hastags on Twitter and Facebook or social media in general they are wrong that will  only led them down a path of angier depression despire and parnoia.   How  many people get meaning from how many likes or views they get on social media or by the number of views a video they post on Youtube?   How many people spend all their time looking for comments in a section just be offended or to cut someone down just because they can?   These next generations coming up I truly am worried about the guilty and shame that they will constanly deal in which most cases will be for no reason.   Private talk is not an indication of a person’s character and should not matter.   This is not a media war between left and right.   I think way too many people get caught in we are on a team there for I must hate everything about them and agree with the other side on everything.   Which is a very dangerous way to think.   One of the problems I see that is demoralizing is anyone that does not go alone with everything a group believes their jobs livelihoods families can be destroyed in an instant with just the click of a button.   I do not want the younger generations to be burden with all of this unnecessary guilty it is not fair or compassionate it is cruel.   There is no other word for it.   I worry about this contury because it is the last hope we have for freedom.   The more you think about yourself the more unhappy the more misery you will cause yourself and others.   The more a person looks  outside of themselves I think they will be more fulfilled.   But it is a complex issue because if a person is thinking about others all the time that can be a heavier burden on them.   I have to admit I struggle with this issue constanly because I fear being selfish.   But I constanly want to grow spiritually and emotionally that is squandered or not even thought about by most people but my question: is why?   Because it is hard and painful because it is a constant process.   If a person is easily offened or is looking to be a offened at any given moment they have no chance of being happy or fulfilled.