giving an opinion no matter what

 

There will always be people who do not like you but that should be the end of it.   But even  though they hate you they still take the time to criticize you.   I don’t get?   If someone can explain this to me I would appecate  it and no I am not kidding.   There are always people who comment and give their opinion when they have no idea what they are talking.   The worst is when people come from a moral standard and those people they know who they are they can form an opinion just like that I don’t get I truly do not I do not  know what it is in human nature.  

Joan Jett's smile and wink

 

I need to mention and has much as I have written about Joan Jett I never mention what makes Joannie unique and that is her smile and wink which adds to the enjoyment.  

Effect on happiness

I want to mention something that I find unique about Lzzy Hale’s vocals she sings with a breathless voice now most of time someone may have a breathless talking voice but no musican that I can think has a breathless singing voice this makes Lzzy’s voice both adds to the sexiness of Lzzy’s voice for example: here’s to us from Halestorm.   Another song that I think is important MZ Hynde also from Halestorm what I love most about this song is the heaviness  and darkness of it the drumming in this song from Lzzy’s little brother: Arejay Hale this track has a heaviness and sexiness to it I love the wonderful mystery of it the violation of it.   With lyrics such as: I’ll gently violate your mind as I tuck you in.   I am keen on people being happy it’s better for you and it is better for the others around you.   I learned this life leason the hard way which I still struggle but I think I am doing better it just takes practice.   I think everyone has to work on their happiness in some way.   But anyone who thinks that someone does not have an effect on another person’s happiness is a lie it does more damage then good in my opinion.   For example: online one guy says something negative and extremely mean what do you think you will focus on the most?   That negative comment it does have an effect there are so many people I wonder why these people do what they do?   There are so many people who get their kicks out of bad news and negativity it is really sad but it is the truth.  

No one is above anyone else

 Something I need to be clear that no one is above anyone else so let’s say there is a gig that you want what most people may assume that person got there just by luck a lot of people may go that person only get there  by luck but they did not see the journey on how they got there.   It is true that everyone is blessed with their health which they really have no control over on the health that they will be born but the journey is extremely diffcult and not easy.   That is what I want  to emphasize that  cynicism is hard not to  have it is sort of like the person who can’t catch a break that person is poison because that person is already defended.   Having a desire for a better life is competly normal because it means you are willing to change.   The idea of fetishes is usually looked down by society has weird odd or not normal but I am here to judge but when a partner calls them “daddy” or “mommy” that is considered strange or odd but no one is referring to someone as their actual “daddy” or “mommy” that is just a term of endearment just like when someone calls someone “baby” they are not referring  to them as an actual “baby” that is an actual term of endearment the thing I want to emphase: do not worry about these terms human sexuality is complicated enough without worring about terms.   If someone feels uncomfortable using these terms do not use them.   I wish sexuality was not has complicated has it is but there nothing I can do 

The idea that no one cares about you

 I have written previously that no care about you I need to clarify that statement it is true that no one cares about you in this sense how many times do you see buried in their cell phones? That is what I am referring but that does not mean that there is not a slient majority who do love  you I am talking about get rid  of the noise on Twitter because that where people just pile on to something it does not matter what it is.   Sometimes family is the worse to tell what your goals and dreams are because  they will ask how are you going to do that?   Or why are you doing that or my least favorite question: what makes someone like you think you can do whatever it is you want to do because remember it is you we are referring?   The thing is your family means well they are just coming from a different vaule system.   I am blessed that I have never had that from my family but a lot of people go through that those doubts and fears the main reason I think social media has ruined society because the mainstream media takes that has that is where the majority of people are.   For example: Brain Stelzer the host of Reliable Sources on CNN thinks that Twitter and social media is what the majority is thinking and when he gets out of that bubble he is shocked.   

Objecting or Infantilizing

 

I thought about maybe I should tone down what I write in light of the #me too movement and then I thought nah I never have thought about the way I have written about women to be objecting  or infantilizing them.   I can not believe I feel the need to write this but unfortunately I do I am against sexual harassment but there are so many men who are affaird to even approach a woman or even talk to a woman because the fear of being accused of sexual harassment or they will be accused of an unwanted sexual advance.   So women need to stop being angry when a guy does not approach them or marry them if this continues it is no secret that it is built into men to want a variety of women and a variety of sexual desires but here the thing most men control themselves even though it goes against their nature.   No matter how satisfied a man is with his wife or girlfriend the desire to have a variety of females is still there.   But that does not mean a man can not love and be satisfied with his girlfriend or wife or more importantly stay faithful.   I think there is definitely a correlation between the #me too movement and the low marriage rates because men are affaird to even approach a woman and if marriage is a vaule like the previous generations suggest it is not working out to well.   I also hope more people realize that not just men objective and infantilize women men women do it as well which again I am not against I understand fetishes and the like so it is okay.   I do not blame women for what is going on in regard to what is happening with relationships between men and women but I do think that the #me too movement as gone way to far.   I am not against people having their own opinions but if Twitter has taught me anything people can form an opinion with no or actual knowledge and what makes it worse when people form an opinion on Twitter people pile on with little or no imformation on the topic that they have formed an opinion that is extremely foolish.   I still maintain that social media is only a minority.   So my question: is why is the mainstream media basing their prospectives on a minority of people?   That does not make any sense it is dumb.  

Be a good boy

 

Something that I have an abundance of is gratitude meaning I truly marvel at how fortunate I truly am.   I do not mean this  in a cliché sense or I am  not saying what I think people want to hear I am writing it because I truly mean it.   I think more people have a better chance at being happy if you have a little gratitude I think for some people they have no chance of being happy but I am going to guess that for the majority of people that is not the case.   I used to think happy people were odd and I did not think being happy was the default emotion for most people I need to clarify I still do not.   So what I think it is definitely worth doing from my own experience There is more to be sad then to smile there is so much sadness and tragedy out there I am not sure if people really ever take into account all that people go through in life Meredith Brooks wrote and performed a song called all for nothing from her album: Deconstruction a wonderful album the song is about how people go through so much and it all may mean nothing.   So I would guess that most people get through life by faith and I am not sure how you can prepare for life for example: the death of a loved one more specifically the death of a parent or the death of a sibling.   Even though most people know that it  is inevitable.   Dennis Prager wrote about this in his book Happiness is a Serious Problem and on his Prager U Fireside Chats about shock absorbers how people are born with shock absorbers but hopefully those  shock absorbers are strong enough to absorb the shock so to quote Dennis Prager so the heaviness of the shock does not cause someone to die with them.   In fact reading Happiness is a Serious Problem made me scared and I am not sure if that is the best word but I am not sure how you can prepare for those events even though most people know  that those aspects are inevitable and are going to occur.   Steven Pinker mentioned: that he thinks people are born with shock absorbers and I am not really familiar with his work I wish I were.   I have said this previously that there are more people out there that are for you then against you those are the ones who are silent.   I hope that there are family or at least someone who you confine maybe  confidentially that takes maturity which is the opposite of what especially males are taught and I am not against masticate I think it is an important aspect but I think there needs to be someone who you can confidentially discuss your problems and issues on how everyone can get through life and that takes more than religion and that takes plethora of aspects I wrote this earlier but the last thing anyone needs in life is another religion but that is a whole different topic.   I do not care what people think when it comes to entertainment that I enjoy and I know what is trivial and what is not regardless of how my opinions or how passionate I am about that form of entertainment  I try to not become blinded by my passion.   Which sometimes is difficult for me to do.  

Kinks and Fetishes'

 Eddie Trunk said something that I disagree and this is not attack on him and I do not think he would take it as an attack.   Eddie told Jason Green on Wasting Time with Jason Green that it is extremely easy to find out what a fans favorite musicans and bands are doing I think I understand where he is coming but that is not necessarily true.   For example: I searched for Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers album The Last DJ on Youtube which was released in 2014 now I searched for this album in 2019 it took me nine hours to find it I do not mind searching for an album or music online because it was well worth it But most mainstream fans are not going to take the time to  find it because I am such a hardcore fan I did not mind trying to find it.   But I do think the best way to keep up with musicans and bands by signing up for a newsletter that is best way for me to know about new music.   It is not an attack on Eddie Trunk I have the up most respect for Eddie because he keeps this hard rock and metal scene alive.   But the point is it is not as easy for fans to find as it may seem.   Jason Green also said something that I do not understand either  about  the band White Lion from the 80s and someone wrote something to the effect I hate White Lion I hope they never get back together and Jason said why did you click on this if you do not care about it?   My point exactly I do not understand why you would click on something that you hate?   Well I think it is and always been to get a reaction but the point I do not know how to react  to that so Jason did not respond in other words the guy did not get what he wanted.   There always people telling him how to do his show they are experts on how he should do his show and I am all for suggestions to make something better I understand but I do not understand the notion of criticizing something just to do something.   I think sometimes people may get confused because I am against criticizing something just to do so that is not the same as giving your opinions.   There are a lot of people who seem to get a thrill out of seeing someone or something fail it does not matter what it is that is odd and sad part.   Wham Bam Thank you Ma’am I just wanted to write that to quote David Bowie’s Suffocate City a tribute to Ziggy Star Dust and also Danny Dorning’s  finisher in ECW Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am which is a version of a DDT.   Joey Styles would call Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am on Chris Chetti.   Now if you go on the Urban Dictionary: it will state Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am is either a one-night stand or a woman using a man only for sexual grandafaction  and essentially  throwing him away.   But that is not want I am referring.   Some might be wondering why would I write about so many personal issues the main reason I did so it was extremely healing for me to write about because let’s face it I cannot tell a psychology so I worked out a lot of things on my own without people thinking I am crazy! I am just  trying to be realistic that is why I  have told about my so called “kinks” and “fetishes” so readers could not accuses  of being a hypocrite well I admit it because I am human but some  might be wondering how I can write about my faith and then objectify  females?   Well I do not have a good answer other then I am a sinner but I can admit that I enjoyed writing about them and I never think of it as objectify them.   I wrote a lot of this before the #me to movement and I am willing to admit that I prefer  variety of women.   But as Jillian Keenan said sexuality is complicated which includes: spanking etc.   Some Christans may argue are those  not sins?   Maybe I am not going to argue but I would think it is better to not suppress those impulses.   I am not so narcisstic or self-important to think people care about me.   But what social media has taught me that people may not care about you but they do when you fail that gives a lot of people great glee but I wonder how unhappy and miserable they are.   

Who am I to tell anyone what's right and wrong?

 

I think sometimes the only way to get someone’s attention when it comes to following Jesus Christ they literally need the hell scared out of them.  Maybe some maybe thinking because I am thinking the exact same thing who am I to tell anyone about what they should or should not do?   Take me out of it with all my kinks and flaws but here is the thing every preacher pastor televangelist: everyone that people put on pedestals have those same flaws not the same exact flaws and kinks but everyone even pastors have sinned that does not make them bad people that makes them human.   Also there is a misconception that pastors ministers have this special connection with God where they think they have this special outlet to God where a minster’s prayers gets their faster than others.   That is not true but what is true that minsters know they have a savior all I can do is a test to my testimony: what happen I was so sad and depressed that I literally got on my knees and literally cried out God and begged for God’s Holy Sprit to entire my heart and a question someone may asked: how do you know happened?    Well this may disappoint some people but I cannot explain it this is supernatural it is faith.   So  my testimony maybe I came to Christ out of desperation  But the last thing anyone wants in their life is another religion what you want is Christ in your life.   I am not good at memorizing scripture but what I try to do is apply scripture to my life that to me is more important than memorizing scripture I am not against memorizing scripture but it is not my strong my suit I have tried but I have at least I have been able to apply what  I  have read to my life.   That does not exclude me from depression confession lust etc.   There is a quote: from scripture that says all things work for good Romans 8:28 I am not sure everything works out for the best and I am not sure everything happens for a reason I think it is human nature to want to know why things happened when they do but I do not think human beings have the ability to know why things happened when they do.   The only thing we know for certain when we become Christans  we have a savior and hopefully that is just enough for us to continue.   I wish becoming a Christan excluded everyone from depression and confession but unfortunaly that is not possible.    

I have never thought of myself as being nice:

I think I need to clear something up I am just a fan much like Eddie Trunk says he is not a journalist he is just a fan even though he has a radio show.   I have asked why I am a such a nice person?   First of all I do not and never have thought of myself as being nice and I think what is the alternative?   

I care what people think

 

Tiffany may not be someone who most would consider a rocker but in recent years she has gone in a more rock and blues direction.   A song such as: Beatuful  is a mix.   Or a song like waste of time goes in a wonderful blues direction.   To check this out go to Tiffany Tunes.com Now I need to clear this up I do not just like Tiffany because she is redheaded it is no secret that I like red heads but I also prefer a variety of females  but I actually do enjoy her music.   I love her new song called hey baby this goes more in a pop direction but I still like it this song is more Blondie and Miley Cyrus: lyrics that connect with me you’re my baby all day and night baby that’s all right.   I think the name of the album is Shadows I am looking forward to hearing more.   I do not have a problem saying that I am not a Kenny Omega fan I am willing to admit that I do not get it.   But what I am troubled by the most why can’t wrestling fans have a difference of opinion?   It takes so much fun out of this.   I think many have lost prospective.   Professional wrestling is art which means it is subjective.   For example: Jim Ross was asked who he thinks is the best right now he got attacked  for not saying Kenny Omega first of all it is his opinion JR has earned a right to his opinion there is no reason he should be attacked  for it this bothers me and it is also scary.   I am not suggesting fans can not think Kenny is the best it is fine.   But so many fans took JR’s opinion has a personal attack Twitter even started a Hashtag I stand with Omega that is ridiculous.   I have never seen in all my years in being a fan and supporter of professional wrestling a talent coddled like Kenny Omega is.   Everyone should be able to express an opinion without being attacked  at most it should inspire conversation and debate.   I like Don Callis and all especially after his answering my question because it was very detailed and he went above and beyond to address it.   But since he has been alienated with Kenny Omega he seems to be more concerned with keeping Kenny the AEW and Impact World Champion.   After Sami Callihan attacked Kenny and the Young Bucks so Don fired Sami but Scott D’amore was angry and disagreed with what Don did that he overstepped his boundaries by firing Sami.   Last night on Impact Anthem sent a represent Tommy Dreamer to fire Don Callis and to reinstate Sami Callihan.   I really do not care who takes the Impact title away from Kenny Omega if it Sami I do not care who it is I just hope Kenny is dethroned as Impact Champion and he take MR. Callis with him back to AEW.    I can not believe I feel the need to write this but it is extremely important people suggesting that you do not matter everyone matters everyone has value.   More young people are getting their value from social media and the attacks they receive.   Because social media is not going anywhere I think it should be addressed.   I think it is this albatross dragging our society down.   There are also people sometimes in your own family that will tell you that whatever you are doing no one will care so do not try.   That is so arrogant to think anyone would care about anything you do.   It is not about views and follows for me it is about being authentic and real.   I need to address and I am sincere about this I am not suggesting that you should not care what your friends and families think but there is a limit.   There have been sometimes where I have thought working on this project:  oh no I am going to be attacked for this but they seem to be inspired.   I do not think politics and morality is subjective people may have a different prospective on how to get there but I do not think right and wrong is subjective.   So to clear up I do care what people think.   I do find Tiffany to be gorgeous and sexy.