Objecting or Infantilizing

 

I thought about maybe I should tone down what I write in light of the #me too movement and then I thought nah I never have thought about the way I have written about women to be objecting  or infantilizing them.   I can not believe I feel the need to write this but unfortunately I do I am against sexual harassment but there are so many men who are affaird to even approach a woman or even talk to a woman because the fear of being accused of sexual harassment or they will be accused of an unwanted sexual advance.   So women need to stop being angry when a guy does not approach them or marry them if this continues it is no secret that it is built into men to want a variety of women and a variety of sexual desires but here the thing most men control themselves even though it goes against their nature.   No matter how satisfied a man is with his wife or girlfriend the desire to have a variety of females is still there.   But that does not mean a man can not love and be satisfied with his girlfriend or wife or more importantly stay faithful.   I think there is definitely a correlation between the #me too movement and the low marriage rates because men are affaird to even approach a woman and if marriage is a vaule like the previous generations suggest it is not working out to well.   I also hope more people realize that not just men objective and infantilize women men women do it as well which again I am not against I understand fetishes and the like so it is okay.   I do not blame women for what is going on in regard to what is happening with relationships between men and women but I do think that the #me too movement as gone way to far.   I am not against people having their own opinions but if Twitter has taught me anything people can form an opinion with no or actual knowledge and what makes it worse when people form an opinion on Twitter people pile on with little or no imformation on the topic that they have formed an opinion that is extremely foolish.   I still maintain that social media is only a minority.   So my question: is why is the mainstream media basing their prospectives on a minority of people?   That does not make any sense it is dumb.