stop comparing yourself to others

A lot of people do one thing that makes them miserable they compare themselves to others I have done it everyone has done it I think that one person’s aspect of life I wish I had that but the main mistake that I make and everyone makes they think if I had this aspect my life would be so much better or if I had fame my life would be perfect.   But everyone has tragedies and loss of love ones no one is exempt from this.   I think there is this perception that successful people do not have the exact same issues that everyone has they just may live more comfortably have security doing.   I think having money is extremely important to have a secure life but at the same time there is a saying more money more problems.   Or if I become famous all my problems will be over.   Now I am sure being famous has it perks but I would think there would be more problems  connected to it.   Everyone is a package deal so everyone is deceiving themselves by not looking at every aspect of a person’s life.   But everyone does it which in turn does no one and more importantly yourself any good.   It is sort of the same as focusing on your problems all day it is a waste of time and energy because everyone has obstacles in their life some more then others I have had people tell me that I am not being realistic by not focusing my issues I am I just choose not to burden other people with those issues and there are times in private where I do that exact thing.   The thing about comparing yourself to others most of the time indviuals only see one side of a person they do not see the private struggles the personal pain.   One of my goals is not to worry really that is a goal.   I am not sure how to break that down it would be  awesome if I could.   But just take the pressure off yourself.   VH1 had this show called Driven about a person’s journey to how they got to be the person they are now but I am sure all those indviuals had worries in their lives and they probably had a singular focus which I truly respect.   I did not really pay that much attention to the show when it was on I wish I had more.   There have been times where at least wanted to try something because everyone gets only one life.   I think some people believe that they are going to live forever but it does not work that way.   I am not suggesting people should just focus on death.   But the thing about most of my goals they are hobbies in nature so they may just be dreams but that does not mean I will give on them it just means I will not focus on them.   When I have thought about how cool it would be to have that part of a person’s live I would not want the personal struggles.   I have enough of my own problems.   A lot of people who are driven have probably learned how to do one thing that I have learned to do which is ignore what ever your brain is telling you which is not easy but it can be done.   The best thing all of us should do is stop comparing ourselves to other people I am not sure of the keys to happiness money and security probably does help I would be a fool to suggest other wise but I know one thing that makes you unhappy and that is comparing yourself to other people.   I think it is part of human nature but I think it should be managed as much as possible.